Have you ever met “they”? You know that all-encompassing “they” that direct and control your life course, your choices, your happiness? The “they” in “what will they say?” or “what will they think?”
But, they don’t live your life, do they? Then why should their opinion matter as much as they do, or at all? ‘Cause the reality is this: if you spent your entire life aiming to please they, you still could not accomplish the feat. They have an insatiable/unquenchable appetite of opinions that you will never satisfy.
So … what to do about these notorious negatively-opinionated they?
First, it starts with you.
Know yourself and your values—you are uniquely you and the path you take will be influenced by what is intrinsically you, your internal compass. Love and trust yourself and your judgment—operate from that intuitive knowledge about who you are (starting with you’re a child of the Most High God) and what you really desire, then live by those terms.
And to top it off, add a good dose of perspective on the opinions of they and
Post that selfie—for you
Do that workout—for you
You get the picture, right? Do you for you, not they. ONLY YOUR OPINION MATTERS because only you have to live with the consequences of your decisions.
Thank you for reading! Follow the blog here👈 for more.In creative solidarity, Dee